Best Life Advice I Have Received. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing some of the best advice about life I have received. As you know, I faced many challenges growing up and learned valuable lessons from each experience. Each obstacle taught me something important about myself and the world. Moving on often proves tricky, but I know it’s essential for my growth. I remind myself that healing takes time and that I must be patient. One piece of advice I received encouraged me to focus on the present instead of dwelling on the past. Another piece emphasized the importance of seeking support from friends and family during tough times, as their encouragement makes a difference in my journey.
Best Life Advice I have Received
Nothing Is Yours Without Your Name on It
You would be surprised to know who gave me this advice: Chris from “The Engagement That Changed My Life.” Since he shared it with me, I have applied it to every decision. One day, Chris discussed the army and said, “Nothing is yours without your name on it.” He explained that it doesn’t matter what people say; if your name isn’t labeled on something, it can easily be taken away because it doesn’t truly belong to you.
I use this principle in everything, whether friendships, relationships, or even something as simple as a cinema ticket. If the bond is not strong, it can ruin your charity or relationship. For instance, imagine you bought a cinema ticket and accidentally dropped it. Someone else could pick it up and decide to use it for themselves. You would have no choice but to fight to get it back. Even if you create a scene about it, that person could still claim it.
Find A Partner Who Loves You More Than You Love Them
Women often fall in love quickly—this is a common truth. In contrast, men tend to focus on having fun and enjoying themselves. My mom shared this advice with me when I started dating: When a man truly loves you, he will go to great lengths to ensure your happiness and be a part of it. For example, if you love perfumes, a devoted partner will try to gift you a collection of pheromone perfumes. On the other hand, women tend to love unconditionally. While men often take things, women are more inclined to give.
Express Your Anger Towards Your Success
I vividly remember watching a motivational video on YouTube that ignited my deep anger. As I reflected on the countless rejections and challenges, a wave of rage surged through me, ce to scream. It felt like I had reached my breaking point after replaying those painful memories endlessly. Determined to create real change, I decided to apply for college. This choice fueled my drive and ambition. Two years later, I proudly look back at everything I’ve accomplished—embracing new knowledge, building connections, and transforming my life in ways I never thought possible!
Remember Why You Started And Get Things Done
We often reach a point where we feel like giving up. However, remembering why we started can motivate us to persevere. When I was in college, my daughter was just three years old, and the lectures were incredibly challenging. I frequently questioned, “What’s the point? I’ll never work in an office environment.” But then I reminded myself I wanted to create a better life for myself and my daughter. If I had given up back then, I might still be stuck in the same or an even worse situation.
Everything In Life Is Temporary, So Live
We all have big dreams and aspirations for success, but none truly matters if we’re not living. Just because you’re focused on your goals doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy life either. I wanted to give it my all when I started my first job. After two years of working hard every day without taking any time off, I realized it was time to start living again. At first, I thought I was happy while working and paying my bills. It felt great initially, but after a few months, that excitement faded, and I began to feel exhausted and lonely.
That was when I decided to start living again. I was still young and earning money but wasn’t enjoying it. I wasn’t enjoying my life at all. Is this what life is about? Spending the whole week working, paying bills, and saving? I had money saved up, but I wasn’t having any fun.
Meanwhile, all the friends I had left behind, thinking they were a distraction in my life, turned out to be busy having fun with their new friends and didn’t have time for me. I was hurt initially, but I eventually realized it was my fault. I had gotten it all wrong. So please, everyone, learn to make time for the most critical moments with the people who matter most in your life.
That Being Said
The advice shared throughout this journey emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, genuine connections, and embracing life’s fleeting moments. Understanding that we don’t truly “own” anything unless our names are attached reminds us to invest in meaningful relationships and commitments. Finding a partner who values and prioritizes your happiness creates a nurturing environment where both individuals can flourish. Additionally, transforming anger into motivation can catalyze significant personal growth.
Recalling the reasons behind our efforts can help reignite our passion when we feel overwhelmed. Lastly, remember that life isn’t just about work and obligations; making time for joy and connections with loved ones is crucial. By applying these insights, we can better navigate life’s challenges while ensuring we live fully and meaningfully. Embrace each lesson as a stepping stone toward a richer, more fulfilling life. What is the best life advice you have ever received?
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38 Comments
Life With Sonia
Chyna, I feel you so much on that one! Anger toward success is a tough one to navigate, but just being aware of it is such a strong first step. You’re doing the work, mama 💕 Keep going.
Jennifer Bradley
I love the advice to remember why we started! That’s perfect motivation for when times get tough.
Life With Sonia
Thank you so much, Jennifer 💛 Yes! “Remember why you started” is like an anchor in the storms — it always pulls us back to our purpose. I’m so glad that line spoke to you!
Jennifer Van Haitsma
This is so great! I’ve been trying to enjoy the little things more, since life is so precious. Even just the little snuggles with my kids.
Life With Sonia
Oh Jennifer, that’s so beautiful 💕 Those little snuggles really are the moments that matter most. Life has a funny way of slowing us down just enough to notice them, doesn’t it?
Abby
Such a big lesson! And the way life is, you just get this message coming at you more and more with every passing year. This is a great post.
Life With Sonia
So true, Abby. Life just keeps gently (or not so gently!) reminding us of what’s important. I’m really glad this message resonated with you — thank you for your kind words 🌟
Sherry M Lee
Great insights and life advice! Making sure to take time to live and be present took me years to learn, yet they are incredibly important for our well-being and happiness.
Life With Sonia
Sherry, I couldn’t agree more — it takes time to truly live in the present. But once you start, it’s like everything shifts. Thank you for sharing that reflection 💫
Britt K
Great advice – I love the ‘remember why you started’. As I am working on building my online business, it has been full of challenges (which is totally normal). In that moment, it can feel impossible, however, if I stay focused on where I’m going and how this one small bump in the road fits into the bigger journey, it makes it all seem possible again.
Life With Sonia
Yes Britt! That’s such a powerful perspective. The road may be bumpy, but keeping our “why” in focus really does make the impossible feel doable again 💪 You’re doing amazing!
Subhashish Roy
Some great insights again. I tend to always remember that everything is temporary and thus try to make every day a happy one.
Life With Sonia
Thank you, Subhashish. That’s such a wise way to live — appreciating the now because nothing lasts forever. A beautiful reminder 🌈
Ivana Mearns
I always enjoy reading about your views on relationships and on live, you always have so much to share! It’s nice to know that you keep tips from your mum close to your heart.
Life With Sonia
Aww, thank you so much Ivana! That means a lot 💖 I really do carry my mum’s wisdom with me daily — it’s like having a piece of her heart tucked in mine.
Lyosha
It is a very important post and I couldn’t agree with it more. Finding a partner and realizing my life is mine alone made my life turn 180 for better
Life With Sonia
I love that, Lyosha! Realizing your life is your own — that’s a game changer. I’m so happy to hear how much joy and clarity that brought you 🌟
Nicholas Tuma
I love this post. It truly comes from your heart. Sometimes you have to step back on things that mean sometime to you to realize what is truly important.
Life With Sonia
Thank you so much, Nicholas. That really touched me 🙏 Sometimes those pauses and setbacks are actually invitations to realign with what truly matters.
Stephanie S
The best advice I have been given would have to be to just be happy in this very moment. I have realized that life is short, and we can’t lose this moment being upset over something we don’t have control over. Great post!
Life With Sonia
Beautifully said, Stephanie 💛 Being happy in the now — no matter what’s going on — is such a gift we can give ourselves. Thank you for sharing that!
Scott DeNicola
The best advice I have ever been given is “this too shall pass”. Whenever things are getting me down I try to remember this advice and move past whatever is bothering me or has me worried. I’m in the midst of writing something similiar as we speak so I may link back to you. :)
Life With Sonia
Yes, Scott! “This too shall pass” is one of those timeless truths that always helps me breathe a little deeper. I’d love to read your piece — feel free to link back anytime 😊
Laura
Nothing lasts forever – solid advice!! Everything passes, even the tough times don’t last forever!
Great post <3
Life With Sonia
Exactly, Laura — nothing lasts forever, and that includes the hard times 💕 Thank you for the love!
Maria
Great advice. Yes, life can be difficult and not much can happen without our hard work. But it’s definitely hard when you get rebuked a lot. But it sounds like you took your Nos and turned them into Yes’s. Kudos!
Life With Sonia
Thank you, Maria 💖 Yes, I’ve had my fair share of “no’s,” but I’ve learned to turn them into fuel instead of fire. Your words mean so much!
Kim S.
This is a great list of advice you’ve received. I live by tomorrow isn’t promised, but not in a reckless kind of way. It is more so me appreciating the day and my loved ones who are still in my life.
Life With Sonia
Absolutely, Kim — tomorrow isn’t promised, so we treasure today 🌼 I love how you’re choosing to live fully and mindfully. That’s such a beautiful balance.
Desiree
These are all so amazing. I love that you shared these. I definitely needed to hear these. thank you!
Life With Sonia
Aww Desiree, thank you! I’m so glad the post came at the right time for you. We all need these reminders sometimes 💕 You’ve got this.
Kelly| Citytoast2southerntea
Love the last point. Just live. The world can end tomorrow.
Life With Sonia
Yes, Kelly! Just live. That’s it. It sounds simple but it’s honestly everything 🙌
Shayla
These are such important things to learn! You always have such excellent insight to share.
Life With Sonia
Thank you, Shayla! That really means a lot. Life teaches us in the most unexpected ways sometimes — I’m just grateful to share what I’ve learned 🌷
Cyndi Buchanan
Everything in live is temporary is great advice. I try my best to live my life to the fullest.
Life With Sonia
Yes, Cyndi! “Everything is temporary” has helped me through so many tough seasons. Keep living fully — you’re doing beautifully 💛
Chyna | Made New Mama
All things i’m learning along the way. Biggest one I need to implement is Anger toward Success. Thank you!