What If I Didn’t Win? Hello everyone, I hope you are well. I’ve been thinking about this post for weeks. At first, I thought it would simply be a graduation post. I’d share a few photos, say thank you for all your lovely messages, and celebrate graduating with a BA (Hons) in Business with a Marketing focus. But every time I sat down to write, something didn’t feel right. Because the truth is, this isn’t really a story about graduation. It’s about a journey that began more than twelve years ago. A journey filled with heartbreak, uncertainty, resilience and hope.…
Stop Focusing On What You Have Not Done, And Focus On What You Have Not Done, Yet!
Stop Focusing On What You Have Not Done, And Focus On What You Have Not Done, Yet! Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be exploring how shifting your mindset can help you stop looking back and start looking forward to everything you haven’t done. We’ve all had moments where we dwell on missed opportunities or things we should have done by now. But what if we turned our attention to what’s still possible instead of focusing on what hasn’t happened? Stop Focusing On What You Have Not Done, And Focus On What You Have…
Class Of 2023
Class of 2023. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing the memorable moments of my graduation, which took place on Tuesday 3rd, October 2023. As a member of the Class of 2023, 2023 represents a crucial milestone in my educational path. After years of hard work and devotion, I am happy to share my experiences and comments on my Higher National Diploma (HND) graduation in Administration and IT. Class Of 2023 I did it, everyone! Yes, I did it!! I officially graduated with a Grade B of Hgher National Diploma at the North…
How To Make Time to Journal When Life Gets Busy
How To Make Time to Journal When Life Gets Busy. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a few tips on how to make time to journal when life gets busy. Life can be overwhelming, and work-life balance remains a dream for many of us, especially for entrepreneurs and parents. It’s easy to get lost in the daily chaos and forget what’s important. While many tools can help you stay focused, organized, and motivated, journaling is one of the simplest and most effective methodsThe benefits of journaling, however, is well worth the effort.…
The Prosperity In Gratitude
The Prosperity In Gratitude. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing prosperity in gratitude. I hope you had an extraordinary Thanksgiving with friends and families. Here in the UK, we don’t celebrate Thanksgiving. However, I have so much to be thankful for this year, so I am also celebrating Thanksgiving by sharing my new E-book – The Power Gratitude. This is the time of year when we give thanks. It’s when we look around and feel grateful for all we have. Our families, friends, and all of the love in our lives. We…
The First Of Many
The First of Many. Hello everyone. I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be a reflection log on my Graduation Day – the first of many. Yes, last week Tuesday was my graduation day for HNC (Higher National Certificate) Administration and Information Technology. Honestly, it’s been a week, and I am still in shock. After 16 years of education failed to get to where I am; this was honestly the proudest day of my life. The First of Many I honestly don’t know what to say. Dreams do come true. I feel so proud of myself for…
Three Down One To Go
Three Down One to Go. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. I honestly cannot believe what I am about to share—three Down One to Go. Last week, I received an email from the college accepting my application for Higher National Diploma (HND) in Administration and Information Technology. Now, this is an achievement and a dream come true. Trust me. If you know my story, you’ll be proud of me. Three Down One to Go I Got In! This past year has been HECTIC! As you all may know, as a single mum and a fantastic Blogger, I am also…
Cheers to Another Successful New Year
Cheers to Another Successful New Year. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. Happy New Year! As we welcome the New Year, I wanted to take a moment to share a brief update on my life. It’s been an enriching journey, and I’m thrilled to reflect on the highlights of 2021. Despite the challenges and uncertainties, I’ve achieved much and learned even more. The past five or six months have kept me busy, and I’ve genuinely missed connecting with all of you. Your continued support has meant the world to me. I promise to keep you updated and engaged as…
What Does Life in Your 30’s Look Like?
What Does Life in Your 30’s Look Like? Hey everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a reflection on the topic – What Does Life in Your 30’s Look Like? I clocked 30 in May 2020. There were no celebrations due to the UK Lockdown. Even my family members forgot it was my Birthday. I understand, though. The situation was cumbersome on all of us. Unfortunately, due to lockdown, my first year in my 30s was not as expected. I had plans of different activities to do and experiences to create. However, it was…
One Year On Lockdown Reflection
One Year On Lockdown Reflection. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will reflect on One year of Lockdown. 23rd March 2021 marked a year of the Global Pandemic. I had done a Six-month Lockdown Reflection previously, and I thought I should write a round-up post about everything and how it had affected my family and me. I can’t believe a whole Globe can be Lockdown for an entire year! This is the first time to experience it, and I will never forget it. Like everything else, everything in life, there is either a blessing or a lesson.…
I Am Nigerian And My Country Needs You
I am Nigerian And My Country Needs You. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In case you don’t know, I am Nigerian, and My Country needs You. I repeat – I am Nigerian, and my Country needs You. Why? What is happening? That is what I am struggling to put into words. What is happening is a disgrace and an embarrassment to Nigeria, Africa and the World. At this time and age, this should not be happening, but it is, and we need you. The Country you love is on fire. We need your support. The whole world needs…
Are You Getting In The Way?
Are you getting in the way? Hey everyone, I hope you are well. Welcome to Blogtober 2020, Day five. In today’s post, I will be Wow, I’m getting into this everyday blogging lifestyle. The past few days have been an incredible journey for me, and I am glad I have shared it with you. I hope you have enjoyed reading my previous blog posts and found them informative and helpful. I highly recommend it if you haven’t yet checked out my last post. It’s all about decluttering your wardrobe and removing things you don’t need. It’s a great way to…
Six Months Lockdown Reflection
Six Months Lockdown Reflection. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a six months lockdown reflection. Can you believe it has been exactly six months today, 23 September 2020, since the United Kingdom went on Lockdown? I wanted to share a reflection on how it has affected me and how I am moving forward. Six Months Lockdown Reflection Early Stage When I first heard about the Lockdown, I did not take it seriously. I just thought it was another piece of news. Until my last day at work, back on 23 March 2020,…
Navigating Life’s Unexpected Turns
Navigating Life’s Unexpected Turns. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing another life update -Navigating Life’s Unexpected Turns. Currently, I am dealing with an unforeseen challenge that has significantly impacted my plans for starting a new chapter of my life in Nigeria. This unexpected development has caused a substantial shift in my circumstances, prompting me to reevaluate my choices and decisions. While I remain optimistic about the future, I am also mindful of the need to adapt to these new circumstances and make well-considered choices moving forward. Nonetheless, I am determined to navigate…
Won’t Let Go Life Update
Won’t let go, Life Update. Hello everyone, I hope you are all well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a life update. It’s been a minute since I posted on the blog. Before I start, this post was inspired by the best Gospel singer Travis Greene’s song Won’t Let Go. I was introduced to this song through the love of my life, who has been my rock throughout these difficult times. Listening to the words alone made me realise why I am still here. Despite everything that has happened to me, I never gave up. I’m still here because…
My Quarantine Reflection
My Quarantine Reflection. Hey everyone, I hope you are all well. In today’s post, I thought I would do a quarantine reflection. I have been self-isolation for like 3 weeks now and I am loving it. At first, I was a bit worried and uncomfortable about staying at home because I have always been out and about in the last couple of years. I felt I would not be able to cope during staying at home. However, everything starts with your mindset. So having a positive mindset is very crucial for all of us particularly during this Quarantine. My Quarantine…
Best Life Advice I Have Received
Best Life Advice I Have Received. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing some of the best advice about life I have received. As you know, I faced many challenges growing up and learned valuable lessons from each experience. Each obstacle taught me something important about myself and the world. Moving on often proves tricky, but I know it’s essential for my growth. I remind myself that healing takes time and that I must be patient. One piece of advice I received encouraged me to focus on the present instead of dwelling on…
Working Mum Six Months Reflection
Working mum six months Reflection. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. Three months ago, I wrote my Working Mum 3 Months Reflection. I will share my six-monthly reflections as a working single mum in today’s post. I cannot believe it’s been six months that I have been working. It doesn’t feel like time has gone that far. I feel proud that I have been able to keep a job as a single mother and still be myself. You hear stories from other single parents, who all have something negative to say. However, I still don’t understand where the struggle…
Five Things To Do Before I Turn 30
Five things to do before I turn 30. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will explore five things to do before I turn 30. With only three months left before I embrace the milestone of turning 30, I can’t help but reflect on this pivotal moment in my life. Thinking about how little Sonia is transforming into a full-grown woman feels surreal. As I approach this birthday, excitement and apprehension wash over me. I’ve accomplished many significant dreams and have much to be grateful for, from amazing friendships to personal growth. This is the perfect…
Five Things I Love About Myself
Five Things I Love About Myself. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will reflect on the five things I love about myself. We are all used to thinking, listening, and saying negative things about ourselves. However, this year, I chose not to be negative about anything. It’s about time we stop this and change our mindset. As it’s February and the season of love, I will share the things in my life and why I love them rather than discussing Gifts and Dates ideas. Five Things I Love About Myself My strength I will be…
Five Life Events That Shaped Me Into Who I Am Today
Five Life Events That Shaped Me Into Who I Am Today. Hey guys, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing five life events that shaped me into who I am Today. If you follow my blog, you might have read the full background story of these life events I will share with you. Sometimes it is good to sit back and reflect on life events that have made you become the strong person you are now. Five Life Events That Shaped Me Into Who I Am Today Losing My Arm and Hearing I was involved…
My Twenty-Nineteen Goals Reflection
My Twenty-Nineteen Goals Reflection. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In this post, I will be sharing my 2019 Goals Reflection. Wow, it’s been a while since I have done a reflection. This is an excellent opportunity to reflect on the year and the successes and challenges you have faced. We hope that this exercise will help you to gain a better understanding of your accomplishments while also providing you with the opportunity to set goals for the future. We wish you the best of luck in the upcoming year and look forward to hearing your reflections. Before I…





















































































