What If I Didn’t Win? Hello everyone, I hope you are well. I’ve been thinking about this post for weeks. At first, I thought it would simply be a graduation post. I’d share a few photos, say thank you for all your lovely messages, and celebrate graduating with a BA (Hons) in Business with a Marketing focus. But every time I sat down to write, something didn’t feel right. Because the truth is, this isn’t really a story about graduation. It’s about a journey that began more than twelve years ago. A journey filled with heartbreak, uncertainty, resilience and hope.…
What It Takes to Hold It All Together
What It Takes to Hold It All Together. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a deeply personal reflection on single motherhood—what it takes to show up every day when you’re doing it alone, and why our stories, strength, and struggles deserve to be seen, heard, and supported. Tyler Perry’s latest Netflix film, Straw, hit me hard. Not just as a movie fan or a supporter of Black storytelling, but as a single mum who has walked through the fires of parenting alone. The film, led by the phenomenal Taraji P. Henson, paints…
Stop Focusing On What You Have Not Done, And Focus On What You Have Not Done, Yet!
Stop Focusing On What You Have Not Done, And Focus On What You Have Not Done, Yet! Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be exploring how shifting your mindset can help you stop looking back and start looking forward to everything you haven’t done. We’ve all had moments where we dwell on missed opportunities or things we should have done by now. But what if we turned our attention to what’s still possible instead of focusing on what hasn’t happened? Stop Focusing On What You Have Not Done, And Focus On What You Have…
Embracing Self-Love Through Your Motherhood Journey
Embracing Self-Love Through Your Motherhood Journey. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a Mother’s Day special – Embracing Self-Love Through Your Motherhood Journey. Mother’s Day (10th March 2024) is a special day to recognise and celebrate all our wonderful mothers and mother figures. Whether it’s your biological mother, a stepmother, an adoptive mother, or simply a maternal figure who has had a positive impact on your life, this day is dedicated to showing them your love and gratitude. It’s a time to reflect on the sacrifices they’ve made and the unconditional love…
You Are More Than Enough
You Are More Than Enough. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. Today is Mother’s day in the U.K. In today’s post, I will be sharing a Mother’s day Special – You are more than enough. Motherhood is a beautiful journey filled with love, joy, and endless possibilities. It’s a journey that is often challenging but also incredibly rewarding. For all the mothers out there, whether you are chasing your dreams, looking after your kids, or doing both, this post is for you. As mothers, we often have to balance a lot on our plates. We have to look after…
Ultimate Skills And Qualities You Need To Start A Business
Ultimate Skills and Qualities You Need to Start A Business. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will explore the critical skills and traits you need to start a business. Starting a business is a challenging and rewarding endeavour. It requires a unique set of skills and qualities that not everyone possesses. Whether planning to start a small business or a large enterprise, having these skills and qualities can significantly impact your success. From leadership and financial management to communication and perseverance, we will cover everything you need to know to launch and run a successful…
How To Start A Business With Confidence
How To Start A Business With Confidence. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will explore a few tips on how to start a business confidently. Are you someone who has always dreamed of starting your own business but has never taken the plunge due to a lack of confidence? Starting a business can be an exciting and rewarding experience, but it can also be intimidating and overwhelming. One of the biggest challenges for aspiring entrepreneurs is building the confidence to take the first step. Whether you’re worried about financial risks, uncertain about your abilities, or…
Meet Ashley Verma Founder Of Bizzimumzi
Meet Ashley Verma Founder Of Bizzimumzi. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I would like you to meet Ashley Verma, Founder of Bizzimumzi. The Bizzimumzi website is an online community sharing the wild world of parenting. The Bizzimumzi Podcast is your weekly dose of parenting ups and downs. Every Wednesday Ashley Verma is joined in conversation by fellow striving, thriving and surviving Bizzimumzis. Ashley is joined from parents globally sharing their perspectives and how they juggle it all. Meet Ashley Verma Founder Of Bizzimumzi Hello Ashley, It Is A Pleasure To Interview You. Tell Me Something…
Three Down One To Go
Three Down One to Go. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. I honestly cannot believe what I am about to share—three Down One to Go. Last week, I received an email from the college accepting my application for Higher National Diploma (HND) in Administration and Information Technology. Now, this is an achievement and a dream come true. Trust me. If you know my story, you’ll be proud of me. Three Down One to Go I Got In! This past year has been HECTIC! As you all may know, as a single mum and a fantastic Blogger, I am also…
New Mothers Miss Out On £70,000 Of Earnings
New Mothers Miss Out On £70,000 Of Earnings. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a press release from the Social Market Foundation, sharing how new mothers miss out on £70,000 of earnings due to the childcare crisis. The Social Market Foundation (SMF) is a non-partisan think tank. They work to promote evidence-based policy and cross-party cooperation in politics. As well as to educate the public and their representatives about how better policies can deliver greater wealth, happiness and fairness. New Mothers Miss Out On £70,000 Of Earnings Childcare Crisis means new mothers…
The Importance of Siblings Bonding
The Importance of Siblings Bonding. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing the importance of siblings bonding and a few tips on how parents can nurture it. Healthy family relationships are an essential part of developing as a human. Kids with siblings benefit from having a peer in the household that they can grow up with and rely on. Numerous studies now show the importance of sibling relationships in determining how children turn out. For example, this piece from the Centre for Global Development found that older sisters play a significant role in…
Fresh Scent Laundry With Earth Breeze
Fresh Scent Laundry with Earth Breeze. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a product review from Earth Breeze. Earth Breeze is a sustainable laundry detergent that fights plastic waste. Earthbreeze is trying to change the way we do laundry. People will be doing laundry today, tomorrow and far into the future. It is a necessity of life, and there IS a better way to do it. That’s what they believe in, and that’s what they stand behind. However, they decided there must be a better way to do laundry. That’s when they…
What Does Life in Your 30’s Look Like?
What Does Life in Your 30’s Look Like? Hey everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a reflection on the topic – What Does Life in Your 30’s Look Like? I clocked 30 in May 2020. There were no celebrations due to the UK Lockdown. Even my family members forgot it was my Birthday. I understand, though. The situation was cumbersome on all of us. Unfortunately, due to lockdown, my first year in my 30s was not as expected. I had plans of different activities to do and experiences to create. However, it was…
I’m Returning To College
I’m Returning To College. Hey everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I am excited to share that I officially return to college in August 2021. “I am thrilled! I even cried when I received the email with the job offer. You have no idea how difficult this journey has been for me. If you’ve been following my story through my previous posts, such as “The End of An Era,” you’ll understand.” I’m Returning To College Why Have I decided to go back? The simple answer is It’s Now or Never! Next week, my mum is leaving the…
MOTHER’S DAY GIFT GUIDE
Mother’s day gift guide. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a mother’s day gift guide. With everything going on right now, our health and well-being are at stake due to a lot of stress. This year’s mother’s day celebration has to be an extraordinary one. And I believe we are all filled with worry and anxiety because it is. At this point, we don’t know what will happen tomorrow, so no matter what you do this year, no matter how much money you spend, please remember to create a very memorable day.…
Self-Care Tips For Single Parents
Self-Care for Single Parents. Hey everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be exploring self-care tips for single parents. Self-care is essential for single parents who handle multiple responsibilities and stressors independently. Single parenting can be challenging, especially when juggling work, household chores, and caring for children. Therefore, self-care is crucial for single mothers. Despite facing numerous challenges, many single moms can still create happy and stable homes for their families. Their hard work and dedication should be recognised and celebrated. Self-Care Tips For Single Parents Schedule “Me Time” Setting aside dedicated time each day or…
Five Ways Single Parents Make Money
Five ways single parents make money. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be exploring five ways you can make extra money as a single parent. In today’s fast-paced world, finding ways to earn extra income can be a challenge, especially for busy parents juggling multiple responsibilities. Between work, childcare, and household duties, you might feel like there aren’t enough hours in the day. However, there are several flexible opportunities that can fit into your schedule. Consider leveraging your talents or hobbies, such as freelance writing, graphic design, or even selling handmade crafts online. You…
Working Mum Six Months Reflection
Working mum six months Reflection. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. Three months ago, I wrote my Working Mum 3 Months Reflection. I will share my six-monthly reflections as a working single mum in today’s post. I cannot believe it’s been six months that I have been working. It doesn’t feel like time has gone that far. I feel proud that I have been able to keep a job as a single mother and still be myself. You hear stories from other single parents, who all have something negative to say. However, I still don’t understand where the struggle…
Five Things Single Parents Family Should Do More
Five Things Single Parents Family Should Do More. Hey guys, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will share five things single-parent families should do more. As a single mother, raising a child alone can be an overwhelming and challenging physical and emotional task. Amidst the love and happiness of motherhood, it’s easy to forget about the enjoyable things in life while worrying about your child’s welfare. Neglecting our needs can lead to exhaustion and burnout, causing us to say or do things we may regret later. However, it’s important to remember that we’re only human, and it’s…
How To Make Friends As A Single Parent
How to make friends as a single parent. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be exploring five simple ways to make friends as a single parent. Since I learned about my pregnancy, I have found it challenging to make new friends and build long-lasting relationships. Maybe this is because I am afraid of being judged. Perhaps I do not know how to trust or who to trust. Or maybe I feel content in my environment. Everybody’s circumstances are different, and that is fine. Most single parents are likely to rely on Social media to…
My Favourite College Course
My Favourite College Course. Hey guys, How’s everyone doing? In today’s post, I will be my favourite college course. I have been attending college back n forth since 2006. I know, very sad, ain’t it? From my previous posts, such as College or Work? Decision Time I Need Advice and The End of an Era, you would know that I was recently forced to drop out. My Favourite College Course Within the past decade or so, I have studied 7 courses, Administration, Fashion and Textiles, Business Studies, Social Science, Digital Media and Administration, within the last 2 years. I know…
Last Day of Work and School
Last Day of Work and School. Hello everyone, I hope you are all doing well! In today’s post, I’m thrilled to share my thoughts about a special occasion—it’s the last day of work for me and the last day of school for Sasha, marking the beginning of our Christmas holidays. What a journey it has been! Reflecting on the past year, I can confidently say it has been filled with successes and milestones. Each month brought its own set of challenges and achievements that have contributed to growth and learning. Whether at work or in school, we’ve pushed through late…
